The Break Up

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The Break Up

Postby Jax on Tue Jul 06, 2010 8:38 pm

I could teach a day long class on what not to do. Funny thing is that women have no problem being the break uper, however it is much different when they are the break upee. The reason why most men have an issue with this is that we still want to be liked. We want to be able to break up with them and have them still be friendly with us and maybe have a chance to get back with them at a later time should we decide. Unfortunately, that is not reality. If you have successfully seduced the girl her feelings will be hurt when you decide to end the relationship. Best thing to do is to treat it like a band-aid. The get out of jail free card does not exist. Be a gentleman about it, but pull the cord. Before you do it, make sure you have all of your stuff back..........................Jax

Interesting side note......Once some time (longer than a year) has gone by and you bump into her again, introduce yourself as the guy that had your heart broken by your ex. It confuses the hell out of them and gets you on good footing. An ex gf's friend asked why she dumped me and I said because she was tired of cheating on me. She was caught so off guard it was like turning a turtle on its back (or a girl on her back) My ex and I hooked up that night.
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Re: The Break Up

Postby The Gray Ghost on Wed Jul 07, 2010 11:05 am

Jax wrote:because she was tired of cheating on me.


LMAO, classic.
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