what to do after closing

[Izz]

hey guys, im a very outgoing type of guy, i can go and start conversation with anyone, we'll crack jokes a bit and ill leave with contact info every time. but after that nothing happens but having another friend. its good regardless cause i can keep working on them and letting it marinate but what i need to work on is speed. that instant dhv where they dont want you to go anywhere. i consider myself and interesting person but i havent figured out how to really pack a punch. any tricks out there for dhv?

[Jax]

Women seeing you talking to other attractive women is always a nice one (observed DHV). Also, sometimes talking to women about experiences can demonstrate DHV (Spoken DHV). Magic Bullets has an interesting break down of DHV. Let me know if you do not have it.
Example 1: I like to talk about traveling to other countries. What it communicates to them is an exciting lifestyle that they do not have. Typical answer I get back is I wish I could go to (insert country here)
Example 2: I saw one of our guys in Houston a few months ago talk about sky diving.
Also, it sounds like you are connecting with them after the fact, so I would not worry too much about DHV as much as I would look at how you are progressing things and the amount of attraction you have built. Remember, if you are asking her out she is lucky that a guy like you is giving her a chance..................Jax