Thoughts on online dating sites

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Thoughts on online dating sites

Postby spaceball on Sat Jul 24, 2010 4:45 pm

Well I will start by saying that I am "not" an online guy. To me it seems to take way to long to get the day1 ball rolling. Your working on intro/comfort over the course of a few days...only to re-repeat once you finally get a meet....It just seems like double duty, when I could be using that time to actually go out and do it "once".

Most of them are 5-7s mabey a few 8s. I have rarley met an actual 9 or 10 (makes sense most 8's and up really dont need a dating website...and I have used at least 3 date sites in the past 3 months ock, yahoo, and...ugh...eharmony...ya its was just 20 bucks though).

Stay away from eharmony...just dont do it, trust me. ock isnt bad and yahoo is ok. The common problem is that alot of really good looking women on these sites are dealing with a barrage....of emails....I mean lots. One chick (to me an 8) said she could get around 15 emails a day...think about that 15
new" emails a day??! and she was just an 8. To top it off most of the really good looing women are on there because they have issues...I have been on 11 meets in the past 3 mo from online game, and all most all of them either had phsyc issues, not honest about who they where, or where just plain no where near as good looking as there pics.

And that is one problem I have with dating websites....your just an email message...a bunch of text, at least in live game you can showcase your style, r/s, and confidence and read hers in 2 minutes...max. vs banter back in forth text messages for a week or so till you finally get a meet....in which case your are almost beginning all, over, again.

Now if online game works for you more power to you, but for me it is just too much work with very dicey payoff. I may be doing things wrong, if I am please let me know what your online game experience was...or mabey its just not my thing.
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Re: Thoughts on online dating sites

Postby Hex on Mon Jul 26, 2010 8:56 am

You pretty much summed up my experience as well. I did it for about 6 months when I first moved here and then gave up after I realized that most of the girls were very different from their photos and then the decent looking ones were usually psycho. Hot girls usually are not trolling for dates online and if they are, they probably have psychological/personality issues. The one good thing though is that it gives you a great opportunity to get laid as girls you meet online are almost always "easy" once you get them to meet up.

If you're going through a dry spell and just want sex, online gaming is the way to go. Have you tried speed dating btw? You might like it better.

Also, I'm not sure if you have totally given up on it, but here's a great post by Entropy on online game. You really should practice by going out, but online is still a great way to supplement your dating life.

Entropy's Online Game LOLz Guide to Picking Up Women:

http://www.entropypua.com/blog/entropys ... men-online
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Re: Thoughts on online dating sites

Postby spaceball on Thu Jul 29, 2010 6:33 pm

Never tried speed dating, but im sure the results are better.

To be honest (in my mind), nothing beats the old fashoned way....get off your ass and get out there in the world and talk. You have first hand intel on "who" it is your sarging, which to me makes sense from a standpoint of wanting quality results. The more accurate information I have means that a. im not wasting my time sarging a women I dont want, b. if I do want her I have almost all the info I need in minutes to game her properly.

Yea, I agree...most chicks on date sites or supper ready to get laid. The sticking point for me is the repetition of comfort building/repore/attraction (effort) + time involved + the quality + dubious intel = not worth it...the net results just seem to low for my taste.

P.S. I have met dudes that say thats all they do is online game and got great results...so ca sara sara I guess.
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Re: Thoughts on online dating sites

Postby HOPPY on Sat Jul 31, 2010 5:35 pm

speed dating sucks. its the slum of all women. Half the girls there are support for their friends..... save your money.
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